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Does confidence = the hat you wear?

Updated: Apr 10, 2022


Yes & No.


Yes, confidence is reflected in the job that we do or in wearing a favorite article of clothing.


No, confidence, true confidence, comes from within.


Let’s explore this for a minute.


We each wear a multitude of hats every day. As men and women we are faced with the duplicities of gender stereotypical roles. In addition, aesthetics and social acceptance plays a big role in how we feel and think about ourselves and each other especially, when the primary individual motivation is that of fitting in. At the end of the day all we want is to be accepted.